Thursday, September 23, 2010

good days, bad days

Hi Friends and Family,

Last week was round 2 of chemo and despite that fact that I ate a lot later that night I did end up being quite nauseous the next day and had a rougher recovery from round 2 than I did for round 1.  It seemed that with a med regime change we got that nausea under control but it's been rearing it's head again this week.  While I did have many good days last week it's been a little rougher this week.  Yesterday in particular was horrible.  I couldn't keep anything down and I was dry heaving all day it seemed. 

Doctor called in an updated prescription for a new drug that seemed to be effective until it wasn't.  Long story short, I went to the ER because I was facing dehydration.  They pumped me full of fluids (via the power port, of course) and more nausea meds and I left around 3:00 AM.  AT least I didn't need to be admitted which is what happened the last two times I went to the ER.

Today is better though I am still feeling less than stellar.  At this point, it's a victory because I have only thrown up once today (so far anyway). 

On the bright side, my good friend Darla is now visiting from Portland and it's been great to see her and talk about the old days (you know, the 90's) and she is at present making dinner for us so what more could I ask for?  Maybe less nausea while she's here.  She's had to be very patient with me while I run up to go be sick every so often.

Another round of paracentesis tomorrow.  Any wagers as to how much fluid they'll get out?  I'm feeling it to be about 2.5 liters again.  Round 3 of chemo is next Tuesday - wish me luck!

Thanks again for all the notes and such.  Every day there's something wonderful in my inbox and my mailbox.  It's wonderful to feel so loved!
David

p.s.  Some people have indicated they weren't sure how to post a comment - if you click the comment section a space should just appear to comment, right?  I guess since I have never done it I haven't thought about it.

10 comments:

  1. Thinking about you, having plenty of martinis (and wishing you could have them, and hoping the dr's get the nausea under control. Love, Celia

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  2. Sending you many kisses, but sticking to whiskey. I'll let the kids drink the gin. You are loved by many. "I had 22 dreams last night and you were in 21" (PW) Love, Chris

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  3. I am betting 3.2. Is this like The Price is Right? If I go over do I lose? I love your posts and I think you are super fabulous and so very brave. Keep 'em coming! XO

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  4. Thinking about you more than you know. Hoping the fluid drain helps you feel better!!
    Hope to see you soon! :)
    xoxoxoxo & lots of love too!

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  5. Hello D&D, Tanya's mom here. Catching up on the 2 Martinis. Loved DT's entry of Please & Thanks. If only everyone with or without cancer could look at life that way! Glad Tanya was able to come east to spend some time with you. We're heading out to Denver the end of Oct. I remember our excursion with DT out there a couple years ago.
    Sending lots of positive vibes to you both. Marsha
    PS Have no idea what profile I'm supposed to be using. All new to me. :)

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  6. Hi David-

    This will be my 4th try at posting: one other here and 3 on the pics. I kept trying and the computer would barf at me. Coincidence?? I'm sure you enjoyed your visit with Amy Beth, Ellen & Tanya and now Darla. Good friends are the best tonic b/c they're happy to converse or just sit and be. Be sure to ask Dave to tell you Michael's jokes. He foisted them upon us at lunch money today as only he can. Have a good weekend with Dave and I hope to see you soon.
    Love - Jenny

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  7. i'm sending love to you from afar as i'm hanging with my beautiful nephews this weekend - kid therapy was just what my doctor ordered! i wish it was as simple as that for you!! i'm going to come and visit next week - even if just for a few - as i miss seeing you terribly!

    i hope this weekend is a good one for you - and that you get to spend some wonderful time with Darla.

    Hang in there and i hope Tuesday is a good day for you - at least a better one than the previous treatment.

    sending you much love and lots of hugs or energy from 3 and 5 y.o.'s!

    love you!! Melis

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  8. Hi David,

    I admire you for your strength and courage. I think it's great that you are keeping this blog and I'm sure all of your friends and family do as well.

    I have some history with what you're going through in my family (Aunt and Father). As I told Dave today, if you ever want anyone to talk to just let me know.

    To all of the friends and family members reading this, there is a site you can go to to show your support and donate money for research. http://www.lustgarten.org/ They also sell purple wrist bands for $5 a piece. The money goes toward research and it's a great way to show your support for those you care about. I've been wearing 2 (1 for my father and 1 for my aunt), but I've just ordered some more and will be wearing a 3rd for you David.

    Sending you positive thoughts,
    Andrew Ikamas

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  9. Followed the instructions and lo and behold....the comment box did pop up! David...life is full of surprises and you were one of mine. Say hello to Amy Beth, Ellen and of course Dave for us. I loved our last visit together...and remember that I put you to work in my kitchen! The secret of the oil and vinegar mix :)

    Sending an avalanche of thoughts, wishes, memories and prayers.

    Love
    Mary

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  10. Thanks for the shout-out! And for your hospitality and for teaching me how to play cribbage and for letting me beat you at it and for everything. Also, it felt quite the honor and privilege to drink an actual martini out of the martini glass that is the cover model for this blog.

    I wish I could visit more frequently or there was more I could do, but I have a lot of faith in your friends and family nearby to take good care of you both.

    Thank you again - I'll send pics soon!

    xo Darla

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